The reality is, men are PROGRAMMED to want to be with, and sleep with, sexy younger women.
And women are PROGRAMMED to want to be with older guys — who have more knowledge and resources than younger men do.
But the problem for most guys is that once they reach a certain age — whether it’s 28, 38 or 58 — they think that they can ONLY date women who are within their same “age range.”
Of course, if they had a choice, they would prefer to date a younger, more sexually attractive woman who did NOT have children already and all kinds of other baggage.
But, the majority of men don’t think this is a realistic option, and so they settle for a woman their own age, and try to cope with the baggage and all that comes with it.
Meanwhile, the highly successful guys — the wealthy businessmen, celebrities, etc — they’re all dating and marrying younger women.
Why? Because they can use their MONEY and FAME to attract sexy younger females.
But you don’t NEED these qualities in order to attract and date the sexy, fun younger women that you would prefer to be with.
In fact, there are some rules and strategies that you can learn right now that will make it MUCH easier for you to meet, flirt with, and date younger women.
I can’t give them all away in this blog post…I will post more in the future…but the biggest thing I’ve learned about dating younger women is that you’ve got to “frame” your age as an ADVANTAGE.
Let’s say you start talking to a girl at a party. You’re obviously more than ten years older than she is. At this point, most guys would nervously worry about her asking how old he is, and he would then try to conceal his age — lie about it, make a joke, etc.
Actually, you will have much more success if YOU bring your age out into the open, and make her feel that SHE is not up to your level!
For example, you say to her:
“Y’know, Lisa, you’ve got a good sense of humor. It’s too bad we can’t date, I’m 40 years old and I have a hard time dating women your age, they just don’t have a sense of what they want out of life.”
Now, if you’ve already laid the right groundwork and gotten her interested in you — and I recommend the book Mack Tactics if you want to learn incredible conversation skills with women — then she won’t feel insulted by your comment.
Actually, she will now feel the need to PROVE to you that she IS a savvy younger chick, and CAN relate to a mature man like yourself!
I’m 41 and I met a very hot 26 year old last night that I’ll be taking out tomorrow. More updates soon, as I master the art of dating younger women.
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